{"id":426,"date":"2024-03-01T17:06:00","date_gmt":"2024-03-01T17:06:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.bulowclinic.com\/?p=426"},"modified":"2024-12-18T13:01:11","modified_gmt":"2024-12-18T13:01:11","slug":"to-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.bulowclinic.com\/?p=426","title":{"rendered":"TO LOVE"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Love is a choice <\/figcaption><\/figure><\/div>\n\n\n

LOVE IS A CHOICE. How can I say that?<\/strong> Falling in love, or being in love on the other hand, has obviously to with emotions, and we all know that they come and go. That\u2019s why we can\u2019t trust them entirely. Every person has the need on some level to feel needed, nurtured, being seen for who they are and being confirmed.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

But that\u2019s not love. That is nurturing your self\/ego. When you love yourself 100 % you can give all that to yourself. If someone else is also giving it to you, that\u2019s a bonus.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

So what is love? And what does it mean to love? For me, love is the highest energy and power that unites the universe. It\u2019s the glue that makes atoms, cells, people, galaxies and planets stick together. It\u2019s the energy that unites everything that exists. Energy can never be destroyed, only being transformed, so since love is energy, it can only be transformed into something else.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Love for me is letting another person be who he or she is. Not trying to change the person. It\u2019s just total acceptance of what is. It doesn\u2019t need to be persuaded or altered.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Love doesn\u2019t disappear even if we choose not to recognize it or feel it. Love is a power that is independent of us. It\u2019s just there. Love is everywhere. What we chose to do with our love is entirely up to each and every one of us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Love never hurts; the interpretation of it may, if it\u2019s unanswered. It\u2019s in the eye of the beholder.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

You can always transform your love into another kind of love, one that doesn\u2019t hurt, like a deep friendship. People come and go in and out of our lives for different reasons, some for a reason, some for a season and some for a lifetime. No matter what: we learn.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

All my love,<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u2764\ufe0f <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Eva <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

LOVE IS A CHOICE. How can I say that? Falling in love, or being in love on the other hand, has obviously to with emotions, and we all know that they come and go. That\u2019s why we can\u2019t trust them entirely. Every person has the need on some level to feel needed, nurtured, being seen for who they are and being confirmed. But that\u2019s not love. That is nurturing your self\/ego. When you love yourself 100 % you can give all that to yourself. If someone else is also giving it to you, that\u2019s a bonus. So what is love? And what does it mean to love? For me, love is the highest energy and power that unites the universe. It\u2019s the glue that makes atoms, cells, people, galaxies and planets stick together. It\u2019s the energy that unites everything that exists. Energy can never be destroyed, only being transformed, so since love is energy, it can only be transformed into something else. Love for me is letting another person be who he or she is. Not trying to change the person. It\u2019s just total acceptance of what is. It doesn\u2019t need to be persuaded or altered. Love doesn\u2019t disappear even if we choose not to recognize it or feel it. Love is a power that is independent of us. It\u2019s just there. Love is everywhere. What we chose to do with our love is entirely up to each and every one of us. Love never hurts; the interpretation of it may, if it\u2019s unanswered. It\u2019s in the eye of the beholder. You can always transform your love into another kind of love, one that doesn\u2019t hurt, like a deep friendship. People come and go in and out of our lives for different reasons, some for a reason, some for a season and some for a lifetime. No matter what: we learn. All my love, \u2764\ufe0f Eva<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-426","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.bulowclinic.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/426","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.bulowclinic.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.bulowclinic.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.bulowclinic.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.bulowclinic.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=426"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/blog.bulowclinic.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/426\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1988,"href":"https:\/\/blog.bulowclinic.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/426\/revisions\/1988"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.bulowclinic.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=426"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.bulowclinic.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=426"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.bulowclinic.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=426"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}